Mending Fences

20 minutes ago I sent a text message to J asking to meet up to discuss what happened about two weeks ago.  No answer yet.

My sister came to work today to play some ping pong and have lunch.  A co-worker gave me some guilt about the whole J situation while we were eating, and I decided for the good of everyone around us I needed to either end it or fix it enough so everyone else wasn't uncomfortable.

Part of me is pretty pissed off that I'm getting the pressure to fix it when I don't feel like I was the one who did anything wrong.  I'm fairly certain that in literally all situations I'm put in, it is mandatory that I be the bigger person.

Being an adult is lame.